A 32-year-old woman identified as Natasha, from Woodlands in Lusaka, has reportedly taken to ZedSpark in search of a serious relationship with a financially stable man, revealing that she is three months pregnant following a breakup with her former partner.
In her single entry, Natasha says she and her ex recently separated because of disagreements over financial preparedness for their baby’s arrival.
According to her account, whenever she raised concerns about how they would prepare for the child, her former partner’s response was essentially that “God will provide.”
Natasha, however, believes that faith must be accompanied by practical planning, particularly when preparing to welcome a baby.
“God has provided nine months. You were supposed to provide the nappies!” she joked, in a humorous remark that has become the standout line of her relationship appeal.
Natasha Wants a Serious Relationship
Now looking ahead, Natasha says she is interested in meeting an understanding, loving and financially stable man who is ready for a serious relationship and willing to become part of a family that will soon welcome a new member.
She says she is not looking for perfection but wants someone responsible, dependable and capable of communicating honestly.
According to her entry, she would prefer a man who does not already have children, explaining that she hopes to begin this new chapter with a partner who is ready to build a family together.
Her appeal combines humour with a serious message about relationships, financial responsibility and the importance of preparing for parenthood.
“Babies Don’t Accept Promises as Payment”
One of the most memorable lines in Natasha’s message is her observation that babies do not accept promises as payment.
The remark highlights a concern many couples face when preparing for parenthood: the need to discuss finances, childcare and other responsibilities before a child arrives.
While financial stability is important, a lasting relationship also depends on honesty, emotional maturity, mutual respect and a shared understanding of parental responsibilities.
Natasha says she wants a man who keeps his word, communicates openly and is prepared to take a relationship seriously.
Her Search for Love Continues
With approximately six months remaining until her expected delivery, Natasha says she is open to starting a relationship before the baby arrives.
Her entry has a humorous tone, but her request reflects a desire for companionship and stability as she prepares for motherhood.
Whether she finds the partner she is looking for remains to be seen. For now, Natasha is putting her message out there through ZedSpark, hoping to connect with someone who shares her vision of a committed relationship and family life.
What do you think? Should someone who is expecting a baby prioritise finding a new partner, or focus on preparing for parenthood first? Share your thoughts respectfully.
